I Never Expected It to Be “This Way”
Andi ByersPublished on: 02/06/2026
Nobody prepares you for grieving the life you thought you’d have while actively living it. This is a personal reflection on chronic illness, survival, healing, identity shifts, and learning how to finally choose peace over survival mode.
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